I agree with the large person.
An abiding memory is that of Gordon Spice with his front bumper under the rear bumper of Andy Rouse's Capri going through Paddock Hill Bend at the 1978 British GP support race. And these were
TEAM MATES!!!.
A bit of rubbed paintwork doesn't actually harm anyone.
The problem now is as Fatchap says. Its desperate lunges from nowhere which cause the accidents.
BTW. There is an unwritten agreement that nudging and rubbing is expected in the BTCC.